Soul Contracts / Sacred Contracts

Have you been struggling to resolve issues with specific people in your life to no avail or with little success? 

Do you find yourself exhausted and depleted trying to heal heartbreaking situations with another person in your life?

What you may be dealing with is a soul contract that needs to be re-written or ended.   ​Allow me  to explain...

Before we are born, our soul and the souls of those we have  known over many lifetimes make some agreements.  These agreements are called soul contracts and they bind us together. Before we entered this present lifetime, our souls agreed that this is the perfect lifetime to learn a particular lesson or lessons and that we would use the experiences of this coming incarnation to mature on our spiritual path. We go through this process of planning out and agreeing to a sacred contract or contracts, often with multiple soul-mates in order to facilitate the lesson(s). 
 
The term soulmmates describe a very wide array of people. They can be family members, friends, enemies, “frenemies”, teachers, students and lovers, etc. But at the spiritual level, soul-mates are those selflessly benevolent souls that love us enough and whom we love enough to come back into our lifetime to help us grow.  

In fact, sometimes they love us so much that they are willing to play a role in our lives that may be very difficult for us or in turn we may even be the difficult one for them. It works both ways, but this is the crux of it, this does not mean we have an excuse to be a jerk to one another. In fact, our contract opens for us the opportunities to create a new dynamic within an old relationship style by rising above or growing beyond the need to be unkind. What is vital to understand and what makes soul contracts particularly hopeful, is that once we incarnate we still have control over the contracts we've made for this present life! 

With guidance It is possible to re-write these contracts, if they're not working out as well as we thought they would when we were in that place of higher consciousness agreeing to them. There is always, always, always free will involved. Free will is what gives our souls autonomy and it is vital to our soul's journey.  As agreed upon we are presented with the opportunities that are aligned with our soul's purpose, but we make the decisions about how to act or behave and what paths we choose to follow.

Simply because an opportunity comes to us does not mean we have to accept it. When an opportunity connected to our contract isn’t taken we will have more opportunities later to do so, The Universe never tires of giving us second chances. If we don’t learn a lesson or fulfill a part of our contract, our soul may choose to revisit it later in this lifetime or in our next life. 

By revisiting the contract, we can either choose to end a contract or renegotiate the terms. It is important to remember that although both the souls involved in the contract had agreed prior to rebirth on the terms, both souls must work out the nuances of the agreement for each other's greater good. Therefore, if one person is no longer serving the other's greater good, it may be time to re-write or end the contract.

As an example, there is no reason what-so-ever, to remain in an abusive or toxic relationship simply because we believe we made a contract to do so prior to re-incarnating.  In fact, rewriting or ending a contract may be exactly what we agreed to do, once we are face-to-face with that particular lesson.
By walking away in peace the contract may be completed and there is no need to continue with that particular relationship in this lifetime or the next.

It is important to note here that it is not possible to end a sacred contract with a family member or anyone else who is still actively in our lives.  These types of family or close connection contracts can only be amended. If a family member or someone who was ‘like family’ has passed over that soul contract may be officially ended and released so you will never have to return with them in the next incarnation. 
 
When a soul contract is rewritten, our role, how we act and/or behavior within the relationship changes.  For example:  If we have a parent, or any other person in our life, who is overly critical  or cruel to us and our innate response is to keep a stiff upper lip and take it without protecting or defending ourselves, that submissive role we find ourselves playing out is not serving our greater good and therefore needs to be rewritten so that we are able to stand within or take back our personal power.
 
Unlike the human plane, rewriting our contract does not require both people to agree upon this new contract.  It simply requires one person within the relationship to be willing to renegotiate the terms. This amendment is agreed upon at the soul level and at that benevolent level, both souls will readily agree to the new terms.  
 
If you feel you may need guidance in order to rewrite or bring an end to an unhealthy soul contract in your life, please feel free to contact me to discuss. 518-504-0190